The Hand That Feeds You Can Also Starve You: How Feminism Redefined the Modern Woman
The “hand that feeds you” might once have been the only lifeline women had. But in today’s world, women have learned to feed themselves — and that changes the power dynamic forever. The question now isn’t whether women have changed… but whether society is ready to keep up. In the 1700s, a woman’s life was bound by her husband’s authority. She couldn’t own property, couldn’t manage her own money, and if she earned an income, it was rarely equal to a man’s. Survival meant submission, and submission wasn’t a choice — it was the only option. Fast-forward to today, and the picture is very different. Hyper-independence among women isn’t just practiced — it’s celebrated. This change was propelled by the second wave of feminism, which fought to free women from economic dependence and give them financial freedom. Yet here’s the twist — while the modern woman thrives in her independence, society rarely examines the deeper story behind it. Women have embraced the “new normal,” but many men strugg...